Own the day....for you....and them.....

So....the day was so-so....or it sucked for you.  Or didn't suck for you, but sucked for your partner....

Make the end of the day or the time that you know you are going to be together, the best part of the day.

Plan a great meal.  A event for the family.  A personal time for you and him.....whatever...give a promise to the person having the worst day....something to look forward to.  It just makes each day amazing!!  You don't watch special times on TV, you make them for yourself!!